Living in Limbo

There’s a strange tension between where I am and where I want to be. That space in between—the limbo—is where most of life happens, yet it feels the least fulfilling. Like I’m stuck on pause waiting for something to hit play.

I know the goals I have. I know what I’m building. I can even feel how close I’m getting sometimes. But then reality kicks in—rent is due, the loan payment hits, and I’m tired after work. I start questioning everything. Should I be doing something else? Should I take the “safe” route? Should I abandon the dream and just coast?

But here’s the thing—I don’t want to coast. I’ve done that before. And while it’s easier, it’s not worth it.

This blog is helping me realize something: documenting the journey is part of the journey. When you’re in limbo, even one step forward matters. Sharing these thoughts, checking in with myself, and being honest with where I am has become a tool. Something real in a world that often feels foggy.

I don’t know exactly where this road leads. But I do know I’m walking it with intention—even if it’s one tired step at a time.

So if you’re in that same limbo—feeling like you’re floating between “here” and “there”—you’re not alone. Let’s figure it out together.

- Logan

Trying to Get My Life Together

I don’t really know how to start this post other than to say: I’m tired. Not the kind of tired that sleep fixes — the kind that’s tied up in ambition, anxiety, overthinking, and too many open tabs in my brain.

Right now, I’m balancing a lot. I’m working full-time, trying to stay on top of bills, digging myself out of debt, building a business, finishing a degree, studying politics, planning a move, training at the gym, and preparing for a local election. And at the same time, I’m just trying to hold it together as a regular human being — to stay healthy, see my friends, and not lose myself in the middle of it all.

Some days I feel like I’ve got a plan. Other days, I feel like I’m duct-taping my life together.
And if I’m being honest, most of the time I have no clue what I’m doing — I just know I want to be better than where I started.

I grew up with big dreams, but for a while, I didn’t know how to get there. Life knocked me around. Confidence was something I had to learn the hard way. Discipline came out of necessity, not motivation. The pressure to do more with less, to build from nothing — it’s not a cute inspirational quote, it’s just my reality.

But something shifted in me. I decided I was tired of waiting for permission to start. So I’ve been moving — slowly, imperfectly, but forward.

This site, this post, this whole journey — it’s part of that.

If you’re reading this and you’re feeling stuck in your own version of chaos, I’m right there with you. I’m not here to tell you to “hustle harder” or pretend I’ve made it.
I’m just a guy trying to get his life together — publicly, transparently, maybe messily — in hopes that it’ll mean something to someone else down the line.

Thanks for being here.
We’ll figure this out together.

— Stover

The Start of Something New

I don’t have it all figured out.
But I’m not letting that stop me.

This blog isn’t about pretending to be perfect. It’s about documenting the process of rebuilding, learning, and rising — in real time.

If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve felt it too: that quiet pressure in your chest that says, “You were made for more.”
I’ve felt it for years.

There were days I didn’t know where I was going. I’ve felt lost. I’ve felt behind. I’ve had moments where everything looked okay from the outside, but inside it felt like nothing was really moving.

But something changed.
I stopped waiting for the “right time” to start and realized the right time is now.

Why This Blog Exists

I’m building a new life — not just for myself, but for others who feel stuck in the same places I’ve been:

• Wondering what comes next.

• Feeling like you missed your window.

• Knowing deep down you have potential — you just don’t know how to unlock it yet.

This blog will document that journey.
No fluff. No pretending. Just real steps forward.

What You’ll Find Here

Each week, I’ll share:

• Personal updates and what I’m working on

• Lessons from books, podcasts, and conversations

• Strategies for career, confidence, and long-term goals

• Reflections from building a political and professional life from the ground up

It’s not about me — it’s about we.
If you’re trying to figure it out while building something meaningful, this space is for you.

What’s Next

This is just the start.
I have no roadmap. Just a mission.
And the will to see it through.

Whether you’re 17 or 37, starting over or starting fresh, you’re not too late.

Let’s build something from the ground up. Together.

— Logan